19 Jun When it All Goes Wrong… Get Excited!
Hi, Its Sandy Forster from www.WildlyWealthy.com and today I want to talk about why, When It All Goes Wrong… Get you to want to get Excited!
Have you ever experienced everything going along beautifully, when out of the blue everything seems to fall apart (like 2020!)
You might ask yourself why do these things happen when you’ve really been thinking wonderful thoughts, focusing on creating absolute masses of money in your life, visualizing, affirming, sending love out in all directions, and generally doing the right thing?
Two things you must remember. You are a creator; your thoughts are things. You send them out into the world and then attract back to you those that are most predominant.
You May Have Back-orders For Lack
Before you discovered the Law of Attraction, you may have been focusing on the lack in your life, day after day, for years. You may have some ‘backorders for lack’ to clear before you really embrace the avalanches of Abundance that you’ve ordered.
You are not yet an instant creator; you have a lag time between what you think, and when it arrives. So, if you are experiencing some potholes in your road to riches, just keep focused on the future, your ideal future, and you will get there. Don’t ‘keep an eye on those potholes’ or you may have an even bigger crash!
The other thing to remember is, even though you may be really committed to everything you have learned through me or elsewhere about using the LOA, things may still seem to go haywire. You may be putting all the steps together and little by little, you are attracting more into your life when suddenly – BAM it all appears to go wrong. You seem to be going backward and things start going downhill fast. Don’t panic!
You May Feel Very Uncomfortable
The thing to remember is… you are part of nature, you are made up of flesh and blood and cells and atoms. You are who you are not just on a surface level, but also on a cellular level. When you are putting all these processes into place, there may come a time when you feel very uncomfortable. The reason for this is you’re ‘giving birth’ to a new creation, a new you.
You have to change who you are on a cellular level to become a new and improved you, so you can accept new and improved events, situations and people into your life.
Don’t Give Up
This can be very confronting for most people and often it’s in this moment of moving out of your comfort zone that you may surrender to the uncomfortable feelings and give up.
Let me give you an example: You decide you are better than your current job, and so you apply for that fantastic opportunity at that great new company. You send in your resume, go for the interview and it all goes well, and you think you have a good chance of getting the job. You get a phone call to say you have been short-listed and they ask you to come in on Thursday for a final interview
Then suddenly, things start to go wrong. You begin to wonder if this new job is right for you, or whether you are right for it. You start to feel sick in the pit of your stomach. At the last minute, your boss gives you a project that has to be finished by Thursday midday.
These Signs are Proof
You go home and feel as if you are getting a slight fever; maybe you’re getting a cold. Thursday comes and you are too sick to get out of bed, let alone finish your project and get to the interview. You even convince yourself that these ‘signs’ are proof that you should stay where you are in the job you hate.
But what actually happened? I’ll tell you what happened – you were getting incredibly close to manifesting your desire – that’s it!
Falling Apart to Fall into Place
When something moves from the metaphysical or the ‘formless’ into the physical plane, it’s almost as if it has to cross some invisible barrier. When it hits that barrier, things start to change, things begin to transform, and things can get ugly, not always, but they can. It only means that it is all falling apart to then fall into place the way it should.
The thing is, you can’t see the big picture – you don’t know what the Universe’s grand plan is.
The Universe Wants MORE For You
But remember, the Universe always wants bigger and better for you than you do for yourself. But you focus on the here and now, you see things as they are and fall to pieces wondering, “Why me?”
I remember back to one of my many business ventures. I came across these great little slippers that used magnet therapy and reflexology. They were tiny (only came to under the arch of your foot and your heel hung over the end) but they helped you to lose weight. The concept behind them was that the realignment of the spine helped to rid you of back, shoulder, and neck pain, and balance you from the inside out, thereby increasing your metabolism, which in turn burned fat and the weight would drop off easily.
I Was Excited Beyond Belief
They definitely worked – I used them, my back pain disappeared and I lost about 5kg without changing my eating or exercising habits! So my idea was to bring them in from China, set up a website, and sell them. I used the power of my mind (and plenty of phone calls) to get a TV station to do a story on them.
I was so pumped up – I was excited beyond belief – this was it. Here I was, about to have my new venture on TV and import a whole container load of these slippers. The people at the TV station told me that stories on either making money or losing weight generated the most interest. I should expect hundreds if not thousands of inquiries. As I said, I was excited.
This, I had decided, was going to pull me out of my financial hole; this was going to make me rich beyond my wildest dreams. I was going to sell SlimSlippers all around Australia, pay off all my debts, and live the life of my dreams! It was all about to happen for me, and I was ready!
The story was set to go to air on Thursday, but there were extra stories they had to run, so it was changed to Friday, but again, no time. Then it was definitely scheduled for Monday. I was SO excited. All weekend I was jumping out of my skin, Monday my life was going to change forever… then, over the weekend, tragedy occurred in Bali – the bombing of innocent lives.
Yes, my story went to air Monday night, with a story about that first Bali bombing right before it, and a special about the Bali bombings right after it. Who in their right mind would be focusing on silly little SlimSlippers with all that tragedy going on? Well, at least twelve people I guess, as
that’s how many orders I received after the show.
I Was a Selfish Bitch!
Was the queen of personal development upset in any way? You bet I was; I was shattered, I was despondent, I was depressed, I was down lower than low. I could not believe what had happened. “Why me? What had I done to deserve this? Why did things always go wrong for me? What is the matter with me?” Things could not have looked any worse for me at that point than they did (seriously, how selfish was I being, given the tragic situation).
I got upset and I moaned, and I groaned and I sobbed and I screamed and generally lost the plot (for a few hours only). I was so far down the financial gurgler that I didn’t see any way to get back up. That’s when I went out and got my part-time job at s clothing shop, and then a few weeks later my accountant contacted me and wanted to partner with me to start a direct sales business which I was really successful at, which led me to launch a program called Wildly Wealthy Women that made me millions, that caused me to write my book and then launch The Inspired Spirit Coaching Academy. So that disaster led me to where I am today.
Gone from Welfare to Millionaire
You see the Universe knows what’s going on. I had my sights set on a SlimSlippers empire – and if my plan had all worked out, I would be selling those little slippers, posting parcels all over Australia, getting returns, dealing with irate customers because they got the wrong size, etc. etc. And instead, here I am living my life’s purpose. I’ve gone from welfare to millionaire, I’m living my dream, teaching people around the world how to create a life filled with Prosperity, showing them that it is possible, and anyone can do it, including YOU!
Yet, if my SlimSlippers business had gone as planned, do you think I would have bothered speaking to my Accountant about the direct sales business, which ultimately led me to where I am today – NOT ON YOUR LIFE. I wouldn’t have had the time; I would have had the perfect excuse NOT to talk with my Accountant! I would have continued doing small prosperity classes
every few months, fitting that in around posting out those tiny little slippers!
The Universe Has to Mess Things Up
The Universe HAD to mess it up so I didn’t miss the opportunity that ultimately lead me to my destiny.
The Universe has listened to your request and heard your order. It knows what is best for you in the long run; it has its own ‘grand plan’. It has to re-arrange your life, so you can receive those things you ordered – but it could get a little messy first.
I have discovered a way to get the most out of my worst moments… Get Excited! That’s right; get excited. You must fully understand the following statement: the Universe loves you, adores you, wants nothing but good for you, and sometimes it looks like it’s getting worse because it’s changing course to something so much better than you could ever dream of.
When things go wrong, get excited, do a happy dance, and try to imagine what miraculous thing is going to occur in your life. I have found a fairly equal correlation between how bad something seems and how good it ultimately turns out. That’s not to say you must always have a downer in your life before anything good happens. It’s just my own experience has often been, the worse a situation has looked, the more fantastic the outcome in the long run.
That’s the time to get out your list of desires, spend some time visualizing your dreams, listen to an inspiring audio-program or dance to your favorite music; do whatever you can to pull your energy back up because what you want is on the way!
Get excited about what is going to happen, not what is currently happening! Don’t think about how bad things are; don’t tell your parents how tragic it is; don’t phone your friends to share the horrible news – because then you are focusing more on the bad, and you are actually pushing the good the Universe is trying to bring you, away. You are refusing the gift from God, and placing an order for more bad.
Something Wonderful is On Its Way
It’s in those uncomfortable moments that you should close your eyes and see the truck backing up to your warehouse. Fill your body with excitement – and know that something wonderful is making its way from the formless, unseen, metaphysical plane, into this physical plane. Just remind yourself that you have to have the darkness for the stars to shine, and there has to be a storm for you to see the rainbow.
From now on, if things go wrong, fill your body with anticipation knowing that the Universe has something special in store for you! When the going gets rough for you, it is merely a confirmation that you are set to grow even richer, have even more wealth, and live an increasingly abundant life. So when it all goes wrong get excited!
Once again, this is Sandy Forster and if you want more prosperity tips to go to WildlyWealthy.com
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